Relationships?

What is the first thing that comes into your mind when i mention relationship?

Boy / Girl relationships? Family relationships? Friendship?

Love whether it's for boy/girl relationship, family and friendship is the same.. You want them to be happy, you accept them as they are.. Good relationships can be supportive to an individual in their daily lives.. However, every relationships do go through difficult times and that is pretty normal.

Personally, i believe that action speaks louder than words. agree? BUT, sometimes words speaks more clearly than actions. Building a relationship isn't just about bonding. It require encouragement and support in each other's growth, building them and helping them achieve their targets. It is also important for us to share our likes, dislikes, dreams, fears,mistakes or anything with your partner. Wouldn't you like to share with your partner?

Certainly, every individual needs their personal space but you have to also have time you should bear with your partners. In life's challenges, it is important for us to be supportive especially your partner is facing challenges or hard times whether it's at work, home, or any other issues. Listen to what bother's them and offer help, NOT SYMPATHY.

NEVER TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED!

Always remember, if you're in a happy relationship, your other half is doing little things to make your relationship work. Doesn't matter if it's a big thing they did or even the littlest things. What's important is that there was an effort which has made your relationship work. In everything you do, hard work and a lot of effort is required.

Trust, is very important in every relationship. In order to keep the relationship we need to trust. We need to trust them for the things they say, to know that they wont hurt you. IF trust is gone, if either one takes advantages or does something bad or even either one think either one has. The relationship is OVER. Besides trust, we need to listen as well and i personally know that listening is really hard. Everyone wants to defend themselves, that's not wrong. When we hear something that may seem like a criticism, we interrupt to explain ourselves. Doesn't this sound familiar? But honestly, don't choose what you want to listen to and ignore what you don't want to listen. If you can't just listen outside or with anyone, it's not so much of a big issue but at least to the person you love. This is just a small thing.

We shouldn't depend too much on our other half. Dont expect your partner to do everything for your relationship. Doesn't matter if it's emotional support, physical support, or even financial support.

Through this, i've met a wonderful person who has made all these seem very much possible, someone who has got me to understand a different other half of human life, and someone who has gotten me to grow emotionally and mentally, and someone's who's always been my backbone, my support. My friend, bestfriend, and lover. Before this relationship began, i've always thought if i made a right decision? Things may not be right now, but i believe everyone deserves a chance to try, to convince, to prove, to love. It took quite awhile for us to assure that this was what we wanted, he was right. Probably because of my previous experiences which turned out pretty messy. but then again, im happy i took a step into this.

Come'on, nobody's life is perfect. RIGHT?

ThankYou for everything.

xx

JeslynLing